Saturday, December 14, 2013

Day 2 in China

Another beautiful day in Beijing!  The sky was clear and the sun was out, although it was quite cold and windy.  We had a full morning of walking through the Tiananmen Square and the Forbidden City.  Our tour lasted about 2.5 hours.  We were all quite frozen and anxious to hurry our tour along.  I'm sure it would have been much more enjoyable at a leisurely pace and learning more history, but even bundled up from head to toe and using hand warmers (thank you to whomever suggested that!), we were all very cold and ready to sprint to our warm bus!
Gate at Tiananmen Square

One of the many dragon headed, other animal bodied statues.

Moat outside the Forbidden City

Again the history surrounding this amazing area of Beijing is incredible.  Not once did our kiddos complain or whine, and some of them even asked questions to our wonderful guide, Nancy.   Again, we, and especially our kiddos got their pictures taken many times.  One lady forced her toddler to stand next to Ethan to get their picture taken together.  Thankfully we can all just laugh about it.  

We ate another wonderful traditional Chinese meal with a Holt staff.  We had beef, duck, chicken, eggplant, sweet and sour fish (the entire fish was on the plate!), spicy soup, rice, tea, and much more! The kids tried much of the food and Jonny lost a tooth during lunch!
Eggplant in plum sauce in foreground, and whole sweet and sour fish in background

We then went to a silk factory and learned about the life cycle of the silk worm and how the cocoons are harvested and the silk is taken off the cocoon in thin strands.  In a single cocoon, there is over 3,000 feet of thin silk.  Everyone got a chance to stretch the gathered silk into a large form, which was the size of a double bed comforter.  Many layers of silk are added together to create comforters for beds.  The silk store was fun to go through, and see the beautiful scarves, shirts, dresses, and wall hangings.  

We wandered down to the mall and visited a large multi level Apple Store. We ate dinner at ... Pizza Hut.  It was actually very yummy, albeit the fanciest Pizza Hut we've ever been to.  The mall was huge and had many higher end stores and completely decorated for Christmas.  We were shocked to see Christmas trees, garland, ornaments, santa clause pictures, and Christmas music playing.  Our guide was explaining that the young Chinese have started to recently include Christmas decor in the stores, hotels, restaurants, but it is still not a holiday in China. Most families do not celebrate Christmas at home and no offices are closed on December 25th.  
Panda statue at really large and modern mall

Kiddos playing at the Apple Store
Interesting advertisement for a restaurant within the mall.  

We then visited the Night Market in Beijing.  The long row of red tents with lit up lanterns was fun to explore.  Each tent was a food vendor that was preparing and selling rice and noodle dishes along with see creatures, bugs, and meat on a stick (usually deep fried).  Fried bananas and fruit kabobs were special desserts offered as well. We wisely ate dinner prior to going to the night market, as the food was not very appetizing, although the atmosphere was fabulous.
Night Market in Beijing. Many interesting food items here.

Squid and Stingray at Night Market

Pigeon

Sea Horse and White Snake

Lobster and fried Shrimp

Our awesomely talented and equally as sweet guide, Nancy!

Some of the kiddos spent the rest of the evening swimming.  We are hoping with as many miles as we walked today, that our bodies will allow us to sleep past 4:00AM.  Tomorrow we travel by train to Hebei Province.  We are almost there!  

Friday, December 13, 2013

First Full day in China

What a wonderful day!

First, the breakfast buffet at our hotel is the best we have ever had!  The selection was an amazing array of Chinese, French and American foods, but we all got hooked on the eggs, fresh fruit, yogurt and fruit shots and dumplings.

Our guide said that the air is 'clear' only about 3 days out of the month, and today was one of them.  We saw blue skies and have had the most amazing positive experience so far in China!  Our tour group traveled to the Great Wall of China.  We walked up and up and up the wall. I never knew there were so many steps!  We climbed to many towers along the wall before climbing on very wobbly legs all the way back down.  The kids were more popular to the Chinese than the great wall!  Our kiddos had many many pictures taken of just them or with their new found friends.  Everyone was so friendly and helpful and couldn't believe we had one, two, three, four kids!  We had the most fun with the natives and their excitement over the boys.  They especially liked Ethan and Jonny.  Overall, the Great Wall was anti-climatic and was more climbing up and down than walking around on it.  The history around Beijing is incredible as so much dates back to dynasties from hundreds of years ago.






Washington Strong from the Great Wall!




One of our new friends in China!

After the Great Wall, we had a 7 course (or more, I lost track) meal at a traditional Chinese restaurant, with the large turning platter in the middle of the table to spin the food to each person seated around the large table.  The food was good.

We saw a demonstration at a Jade factory and learned a bit about Jade carving and how to identify a real and imitation jade.  We saw many small and giant jade carvings and also saw men carving statutes and jade balls that were all one piece but had moving layers of balls within.  Simply beautiful and amazing to watch the intricacies and details of such work.

Our jade guide

Amazing carved jade ball, all one piece with many balls inside each other.

Squealing pigs made of red jade

$66,000 jade ship with a buddha in front


After the jade tour we drove through the Olympic Village from 2008.  We did not get our of the bus, but did get close to the water cube, where the swimming events were held, and the bird's nest where the opening and closing ceremonies were held.  We saw all of the athlete's housing, stadiums, and media center.
Water Cube


Bird's Nest



Next we went on a hutong tour.  We all rode in bicycle powered rickshaws, entered into a tradition hutong home, from the Ming Dynasty, and walked through a market.  Hutong is Mongolian for water well, but now means small alley.  The hutong are basically a large neighborhood or section of Beijing (population roughly 20,000 people), that live in connected courtyards (some private, some shared).  The homes are several hundred years old and are about the only places within China that the individuals own that property, the government owns everybody else's property.  It is a upper middle class area, although the homes would not be considered such in the US.  The Chinese are very modern with plumbing, TV's, cell phones, etc. Many still believe western toilets are 'dirty' and prefer the squatty potty.
The kids and Chris at a market.  We saw chicken feet and pigs feet, large and obscure fruits and vegetables and many trinkets.

Sean, Jonny & Bri rode in a rickshaw together

Mom, Ethan and Dad rode in a rickshaw together.

We went for a walk tonight around the hotel and ate at a traditional dumpling restaurant, which was very delicious.  We purchased some bottled water at a local supermarket, and enjoyed looking through all the food and its' packaging at the store.

One of the funniest signs translated today read, "God saves the Streaking".  You have to look close to read it, as we were traveling by bus.  

Thursday, December 12, 2013

We made it to China

After a great greeting by the Bennett's this morning before we left to finally arriving at our hotel around 7:00 pm China time - we have made it to Beijing.

We thank you all for your prayers - we had a long descent to Beijing and it was a little bumby - but overall it was a non-eventful flight - something we want.

As I type this 5 out of 6 Kopinski's are out and I will not be far behind them

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

We Depart Tomorrow

The kids went to bed tonight like it was Christmas Eve … so I am sure they will be up early … which is good, since we need to leave the house by 5:00AM!

We have our van packed with checked baggage and our carry-ons waiting for last minute items in the morning.  We are ready for this trip to begin and can not wait to meet our son on December 16th.

We thank you for your prayers for good health (Chris is battling a head cold) and flights be safe.  Mostly, we pray for the last days Jesse has with his foster family to be pleasant and memorable.


Saturday, December 7, 2013

8 days from seeing my new son - a post from a soon-to-be dad

Can you believe it?  In just 8 short days and probably less due to the time zone difference, I will get to see my new son for the first time.

As all new fathers, I have dreams of lifting him in the air and his smile and laughter melting my heart.  However, this is the first time for welcoming my new son into my life who has already "been around the block" a few years.

I would love for him to run into my arms when we see him the first time, I want to tell him something between him and myself only while I embrace him and we both have tears of joy…  I am nervous about his reaction.  With it be tears of job… or tears of dread / fear

I know… I know…  Most of our friends who have adopted have told Kristen and I to expect the worst - Him not coming to us, him being scared.  My son, Jesse Fu Lian, scared of his dad, truthfully kills me.

However, as we prepare to travel to China, I am excited about this opportunity, nervous about how our lives will change, nervous about his thoughts of Washington as he sees his new life just 6 weeks after a tornado.

What I do know… God only gives us what we can handle.  What HE KNOWS we can handle.  We as a family need to focus on his love for us to get us through this transition.

As we are about to leave, please pray for us for the following things:

* Travel Safety / Making all connections throughout the visit / handling the jet lag
* Easy Adoption process
* Health
* Having the right expectations
* Bonding as a new family of 7

The journey is almost complete - now, life is about to start!!!  With GOD, all things are possible!!!!!


Thursday, December 5, 2013

I am so excited

Hi my name is Jonny. I am 11 years old. I am so excited to have a new little brother. I am really excited to go to China. I am ready to go on a 14 hour plane ride to get to China. When I get to China I will be on jet lag but I will be too excited to sleep because I want to see everything in China.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

1 week

We finally feel that our hearts are mending some from the tornado and we are able to put more of our thought into preparing for our trip to China and meeting Jesse.  We leave to China 1 week from today.

Our entire family will be coming with us, and we have fielded many questions regarding this adventure.  A fellow adoptee mom wrote a blog post about bringing your kids with to China and I couldn't agree with her more, nor say it better.  Click here to see her post.

Here is our schedule:

December 11th - Depart Peoria, IL at 7:00AM, to Detroit to Beijing
December 12th - arrive in Beijing
December 13th - tour The great Wall of China with our adoption agency
December 14th - tour forbidden City and Tiananmen Square with adoption agency
December 15th - travel to Hebei Province via high speed train
December 16th - Gotcha Day!
December 17th- 19th - Get to know Fu Lian
December 20th - fly to Guangzhou
December 21st - doctor appoint
December 23rd - Visa appointment
December 24-25 - Celebrate the birth of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
December 27th - Fly home vie Beijing, Detroit and Peoria - arriving at 9:00PM